A couple of weeks ago Joshua and I faced a huge disappointment. Joshua loves basketball and has trained every day since summer vacation began for this basketball season. This boy would run, do suicides, jump rope, practice shots for hours, jump from the ground to the top of the picnic table (amazing), lift weights etc. I have never seen him so wanting something. Tryouts were two weeks ago. There were 19 kids trying out and of course, Josh was the shortest. He got in my car on Friday after a week of tryouts and told me he did not make it. The car ride home was full of silence. I wanted to cry for him. Needless to say that weekend was full of silence. I was worried how he would ever bounce back and my heart was full of sadness for him. On Tuesday night he sent me the most beautiful text saying that he loved me and that he knew I was sad but I was doing a great job as a mom and also that he knew it wasn't meant to be. Wednesday he went to class and there was a boy who did make the team who told him he was very surprised that Josh did not make it because he was very good and he was shocked when he found out he didn't make it. Josh got in my car that day and told me "mom, I don't understand, but God has some reason for me not making the team. This boy told me he was shocked that I didn't make it and I know now that I am good enough to be on that team but God has other plans". Wow, that was a turn around. After giving more thought to that Josh decided to take the position of manager for the team. He gets to practice with the team and help with stats and other needs at the games. He knows that he will stay conditioned and learn so much by staying with them and also next year he will better his chances of being on the team. Meanwhile today I read this from the Proverbs 31 ministries. Perfect!! I could have used this two weeks ago, but it still helps me today. May I answer my son is "the one who is right where he should be"
"Whatever you do, do it enthusiastically, as something done for the Lord and not for men." Colossians 3:23 (HCSB) Several years ago, my middle daughter Ashley was flitting around the house singing everything "Annie." Our home was filled with songs, dances, scripts and the proud announcement she was trying out for her middle school’s musical. The day the cast list was posted the singing and dancing and rehearsing of the lines stopped. She hadn’t gotten a part in the play. There was a smile and a quick, "Who cares," that hid a thousand tears daring to come if she said much more. But a few days later, the director requested that Ashley and one of her parents attend the all-cast meeting where Ashley was told she’d been given the job of student director. That sounded exciting until the director explained that job basically meant Ashley would be a behind-the-scenes errand runner for her and the cast. There would be no shining moment. There would be no spotlight. There would be no audience applause for her performance. Just hours and hours of behind-the-scenes work. As a parent, I could see the character building potential. I have done my fair share of behind-the-scenes stuff in life and it helped shape me for the better. But to a middle schooler’s heart who loved to sing and dance, it was hard. We went home that night and Ashley struggled with wanting to drop out. But the next morning, Ashley surprised me by deciding she would embrace this role of serving. And embrace it she did! My mama heart soared as Ashley chose to live out the wisdom of Colossians 3:23, "Whatever you do, do it enthusiastically, as something done for the Lord and not for men." And in doing so, she discovered she had quite the knack for choreography, set design and a keen sense of how to make scenes flow more smoothly. The director quickly found Ashley to be quite capable and turned over many responsibilities to my girl. What once seemed like a huge disappointment became a divine appointment instead. Ashley was born to be a leader. Put her in the right environment to lead, and she’ll thrive. I asked Ashley in the midst of rehearsals what she thought of the whole experience. She beamed and said, "I wouldn’t want to be doing anything else than the role I’ve been given, Mom. I love being the student director. I love it so much." When the curtain fell to the thunderous applause of proud parents cheering for their child’s performance, I couldn’t see my little brown-eyed beauty. But I knew she was probably bossing somebody backstage, and I was clapping like crazy for her out front. I even had a reply ready, just in case the mama sitting next to me leaned over and asked which one was mine. "The one who is right where she should be." Father God, thank You for using all things for my good, even disappointment. Help me to look at my disappointments with fresh eyes today, discovering gifts where I am tempted to only see heartache. And show me how I can love and serve others with passion and purpose — right where I am. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. TRUTH FOR TODAY: Isaiah 55:8-9: "‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ declares the LORD. ‘As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.’" (NIV) Romans 8:28: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." (NIV) RELATED RESOURCES: - See more at: http://proverbs31.org/devotions/devo/the-gift-found-in-disappointment/#sthash.s2715c8Z.dpuf
Jenna's teachers on her class party: Mrs. Arms and Mrs. Barbour
